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Matter of Gray v. Ray Chambers

Appellate Division of the Supreme Court of New York, Third Department
Dec 7, 1995
222 A.D.2d 753 (N.Y. App. Div. 1995)

Opinion

December 7, 1995

Appeal from the Family Court of Tompkins County (Barrett, J.).


In November 1989, petitioner, then an unwed 17-year-old, gave birth to a son, Blaine. Upon being advised by the Department of Social Services that Blaine would be placed in foster care unless someone in her family cared for him, petitioner executed an agreement in May 1990 giving custody to respondents, petitioner's stepparents. Family Court "approved" the agreement several weeks later. In December 1992, petitioner commenced this proceeding seeking custody of Blaine. Family Court denied the petition, but we reversed and remitted for a new fact-finding hearing ( 206 A.D.2d 619). On remittal, Family Court found that respondents had not met their burden of establishing "extraordinary circumstances" and granted custody to petitioner. Respondents appeal.

It is fundamental that a biological parent has a claim of custody of his or her child, superior to that of all others, in the absence of surrender, abandonment, persistent neglect, unfitness, disruption of custody over an extended period of time or other extraordinary circumstances ( see, Matter of Michael B., 80 N.Y.2d 299, 309; Matter of Bennett v Jeffreys, 40 N.Y.2d 543, 546). Unless it is shown that one of these circumstances exists, the inquiry is at an end and the biological parent must be given custody of the child ( see, Matter of Male Infant L., 61 N.Y.2d 420, 427).

The record here shows that, after Blaine's birth, petitioner and Blaine lived in a trailer park with a friend of petitioner, but within two months they moved in with respondents. Shortly after signing the custody agreement, petitioner moved to Pennsylvania, returning to New York with her boyfriend in August 1992 to live with respondents. This arrangement lasted until late December 1992 when petitioner went back to Pennsylvania, not returning to New York until August 1993. During this period, petitioner had a number of entry level jobs and residences. Despite these circumstances, she maintained contact with Blaine through frequent telephone calls and monthly visits even though she encountered resistance from respondents. Respondents contend that Family Court erred in awarding petitioner custody since these facts show her unfitness, persistent neglect and significant bonding between them and Blaine.

We disagree and therefore affirm. While the evidence does show that petitioner has had a number of residences, lived at times with unsuitable companions and only gave sporadic attention to Blaine, we have held that such evidence, standing alone, is insufficient to establish the type of gross misconduct or other behavior evincing an utter indifference and irresponsibility necessary to supplant the biological parent ( see, Matter of Culver v Culver, 190 A.D.2d 960, 961). Even though petitioner may not have financially supported Blaine or become involved in his educational or medical needs, such conduct does not constitute persistent neglect since she did maintain contact with him ( see, Matter of Judware v Judware, 197 A.D.2d 752, 752-753; Matter of Bisignano v Walz, 164 A.D.2d 317, 319; see also, Social Services Law § 384-b [a]). Further, psychological bonding is insufficient to qualify as an extraordinary circumstance where, as here, there has not been an extended period of custody disruption ( see, Matter of Bisignano v Walz, supra, at 320). In short, what the record presents is the typical profile of an unwed teenage mother overwhelmed by her circumstances due to her immaturity and lack of parenting skills. Such deficiencies, which can be overcome, do not constitute extraordinary circumstances especially where, as here, they do not lead to a complete abdication of or inability to assume parental responsibilities ( compare, Matter of Reed v Crim, 202 A.D.2d 1018; Matter of Elinor D. v Mary Ann A., 199 A.D.2d 1080).

Finally, inasmuch as there was not an extended period of custody disruption, Family Court did not abuse its discretion in denying respondents' request for funds to retain an expert on the issue of bonding.

Cardona, P.J., Mikoll, Crew III and Yesawich Jr., JJ., concur. Ordered that the order is affirmed, without costs.


Summaries of

Matter of Gray v. Ray Chambers

Appellate Division of the Supreme Court of New York, Third Department
Dec 7, 1995
222 A.D.2d 753 (N.Y. App. Div. 1995)
Case details for

Matter of Gray v. Ray Chambers

Case Details

Full title:In the Matter of ALICIA GRAY, Respondent, v. RAY CHAMBERS et al.…

Court:Appellate Division of the Supreme Court of New York, Third Department

Date published: Dec 7, 1995

Citations

222 A.D.2d 753 (N.Y. App. Div. 1995)
634 N.Y.S.2d 864

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